Cruising through life

  TIME DOES NOT HEAL They say time heals all wounds but I found that it doesn’t. Time can only numb the pain. With time you get used to it. You learn how to live with your pain. The only truth is: Healing takes time.  Healing is personal and intentional. You will never heal if you don’t face what ails you. If you don’t accept the ugly side. When you decide to heal,    you may feel the pain all over again. Like adding insult to injury. Like opening up new wounds you didn’t know existed. Like lifting a rug that you put all your dirt in. Healing is painful and takes longer than expected. Healing shows you all the ugly sides of situations. Healing isn’t as romantic as we wished it would be.  Healing requires shedding of habits and coping mechanisms you built for yourself. You may say, healing calls for self-denial. Healing requires you to look at yourself as you truly are. Healing requires you to be brutally honest with yourself. Healing comes with episodes of extre...

  TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE Have you ever had    a moment in your life where things are going so well that you begin to wonder when things will take a wrong turn? Always bracing yourself for the worst to a point where you don’t know how to receive good. Always bracing yourself for impact or a crash landing that you don’t know how to sore to greater heights? You know all strength quotes but no relief quotes. Do you ever feel guilty for being happy and slowly start self-sabotaging. Looking for tiny things that are going wrong. Looking for things that should hurt you? Mmmhhhh, LET’S REBUKE THAT SPIRIT. “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” ‭‭John‬ ‭10‬:‭10‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ The thief clouds your thoughts and asks    you, ‘who are you to deserve this?You are supposed to be unlucky.’ Or whatever other lies that fill your mind. The devil comes to steal your joy within bl...