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VULNERABILITY & OPENNESS

  VULNERABILITY & OPENNESS   Vulnerability- the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed , either physically or emotionally . Working in retail opened my eyes to see that people have so much they want to share to anyone whose willing to listen. They share a couple of stories and I see how satisfied they are after. Everyone has a story and you do too. I didn’t even know that I struggled with being open until I started getting comments like “you don’t talk about your family” “you didn’t tell me your have a sibling” “I didn’t know you moved” “you haven’t told me anything about yourself” I also got uncomfortable when I got the most basic of questions like “hey, did you talk to your parents?” “Hey, where were you this weekend” “hey, what are you studying” “where are you studying”  It was never about the question. I would wonder , “why do they wanna know?” How will this information help you?  In all honesty, I actua...